Shaboom, Inc. Personal Growth Coaching for Accidental Entrepreneurs- HOME Shaboom! is about the bigger life dream of successful self employment Personal Growth and Small Business Coaching for Accidental Entrepreneurs Personal Growth and Development Workshops for Accidental Entrepreneurs and Small Business Owners Keynote speaking and facilitation The Accidental Entrepreneur's Guide to Self Employment Success, a blog on personal growth and development Small Business Marketing  for the self employed />
          <area shape=

January 22, 2012 7:46 PM

The Incredible Lightness of an Empty Basket

green-bubble.jpg
There's a basket in my office where I put things I'm not quite ready to deal with or that I plan to use in the near future. I toss in notes from a teleclass, like the one Susan Harrow did for us last fall, intending to enter them into Evernote. I store bank statements until I get around to reconciling them. I stash outlines for Profit Alchemy.

You get the picture.

Most of the time, I'm satisfied to let things collect in the basket. But eventually, usually when the basket is about three-quarters full, it becomes a psychic irritant. When I see it, I feel heavy. Almost guilty. Definitely out of synch with myself and my business.

Then I know it's time to deal with the basket.

Getting started is a process
I don't deal with the basket the moment it begins to weigh on me. Instead, I make plans to deal with the basket.

At first, I have intentions. After a while--sometimes a long while--the intentions become plans, and I put them on an action list. And once on that list, dealing with the basket gets moved from one date to another, until through some unseen process, the day arrives when I actually deal with the basket.

The process can take weeks or months. In my case, the process has been going on since the end of the Self Employment Telesummit in October. Today (January 20) I finally dealt with the basket.

Your mileage may vary.

Hold your plan to deal with the basket firmly, but lightly
I've found that it's best to hold plans to deal with the basket both firmly and lightly.

Firmly, so you don't consign the basket to permanent limbo. Lightly, so you don't castigate yourself for putting it off (again). Because the more you beat yourself up, the more inclined you will be to put the basket out of your mind (and quite possibly out of sight) forever.

In other words, be mindful.

The day to deal with the basket will arrive
If you hold plans for dealing with the basket both firmly and lightly, the day will come when you'll know it's time to take action.

The thing is, knowing this is a subtle thing. You need to be reasonably mindful, in touch with your senses and emotions, or you'll miss the signal altogether.

Set the conditions for receiving the signal
You're unlikely to receive the signal to deal with the basket unless two conditions are met.

* There is white space in your schedule.
* You can see the basket directly or indirectly, as through a note in your to do list.

When the signal arrives, answer the call promptly. There's no knowing when the right time will come around again.

Four rewards of dealing with the basket
In addition to the simple, but not insignificant, satisfaction of seeing an empty basket, dealing with it yields four rewards:

* Retrieval of hidden gems.
* Freedom from basket monsters.
* Freedom from unrealized possibilities.
* A rested mind.

Retrieval of hidden gems
Hidden in your basket are goodies you've been saving until you have time to do something with them. Now you get to do the things that extract value from those goodies.

* Transcribe and file valuable notes.
* Send thank you cards.
* Make the phone calls you've almost forgotten you were going to make.

Do each thing now, otherwise it ends up back in the basket, neater perhaps, but just as unfinished.

Freedom from basket monsters
When you lose sight of what's in the basket, the mind manufactures monsters. The monsters shrink when you get them out into the light of day. And they vanish when you do the thing that gets them out of the basket for good.

Disentanglement from unrealized possibilities
The basket is the repository for good ideas, brainstorms, and possibilities. So long as they remain in the basket, they remain in the realm of possibility, which is a good thing.

But it's also a bad thing. Because eventually those unrealized possibilities begin to weigh on you. They morph from what could be into what should have been.

As you clear the basket you have my permission to let go of those possibilities, no strings attached.

There are more where those came from.

A rested mind
A funny thing happens as you clear out the basket. Your mind begins to clear as well.

Simplifying, completing, and letting go free your mind. Even though dealing with the things in your basket is work, it's work that leads to completion.

And when you complete something, your brain releases a small amount of endorphins, nature's own feel-good juice.

And that's the incredible lightness of an empty basket.

Photo by Ritwik Parashar via Flickr

Trackback Pings

TrackBack URL for this entry:
http://www.shaboominc.com/mt/mt-tb.cgi/486

Comments

Post a comment




Remember Me?

(you may use HTML tags for style)

free ebookFree biz ezine

Subscribe to Authentic Promotion, the biz ezine for the spiritually and psychologically savvy, and receive a free 31-page guide, Principles of Authentic Promotion.

Font size too small?
Click here for options.

Subscribe to this blog

Follow Molly at Twitter

Molly Gordon's profile on Facebook

Biznik - Business Networking

View Molly Gordon's profile on LinkedIn

JUST-RIGHT BIZ

Artists: Creativity and Business Take Courage
Things are hopping in the wealth creation project
How to reach potential clients when your work is complex and hard to explain
Part 3: Whose business are you in? You and money
Part 2: Whose business are you in? Meet your tribe
Whose business are you in? Part 1: Your muse vs what clients want
How to get success out of the closet and aligned with your heart

Good Stuff from Good People

 

 

 

 

AUTHENTIC MARKETING

Artists: Creativity and Business Take Courage
Things are hopping in the wealth creation project
How to reach potential clients when your work is complex and hard to explain
Part 2: Whose business are you in? Meet your tribe
How to authentically stand for your work when you're discouraged

JUST RIGHT PRICING

How your heart can guide you in wise and compassionate--and profitable--pricing
Be a shark whisper: How to take care of your need for money and profit
Does your pricing strategy prevent customers from committing?
Why lowering your prices doesn’t work and how to resist the urge
Just another come-on? What marketing, money, & body image have in common.

MONEY

Things are hopping in the wealth creation project
Part 3: Whose business are you in? You and money
How your heart can guide you in wise and compassionate--and profitable--pricing
Self employment, world change, and the Girl Effect
Where can you get the confidence for your business to blossom?

PRODUCTIVITY

A cure for the "If this is such a great idea, why am I not doing it?" blues
Where can you get the confidence for your business to blossom?
Why Accidental Entrepreneurs stall on the road to profitability
Why "The Secret" Hasn't Made You a Millionaire
When you hit a wall, hang a left

BOOKS | TOOLS

From coaching call to virtual sandbox: How a shared whiteboard can transform your teaching
The Pomodoro Technique
Q&A about Getting Biz from Big Companies
Recycle Electronics
The Books Are Here
Consumerism and Depression - A Link?
Going Sane: Working on Your Work

SPIRIT

Whose business are you in? Part 1: Your muse vs what clients want
Self employment, world change, and the Girl Effect
Oh my God. This is your work.
Does the Buddha want you to make a profit?
Make More Happen by Letting More In

LIFE SKILLS

It's always something, and it's not personal
How a circus bow can redeem your worst mistakes
How to get success out of the closet and aligned with your heart
Oh my God. This is your work.
How to authentically stand for your work when you're discouraged



Track referers to your site with referer.org free referrer feed.

Powered by FeedBlitz

 

Shaboom, Inc.
* * *
Molly Gordon's blog, The Accidental Entrepreneur's Guide to Self-Employment Success, is listed in:
Blog Flux Directory | Blog Directory | LS Blogs | Globe Of Blogs | Blog Universe | Blog Directory | Blogdigger |BlogRankings.com
BlogSweet.com
| Weblog Directory | SynBlog.com | All-Blogs.net | Blog-Watch.com
© copyright 2005-2009 * shaboom inc * all rights reserved * design by superwebgroup.